I was always more of an impulsive decision-maker than a meticulous goal-setter.

But the older I got, the more I realized how helpful and essential it is to set my goals far in advance. It keeps me focused and organized.

I have five tips to share with you:

1: Don’t be afraid to dream.

Self-confidence comes from doing things you are afraid to do. You may be afraid to fail or afraid of what others will think. The quicker you get yourself out of your comfort zone, the more possibilities you will see in front of your eyes.

2: Establish “space” for your goals.

You will need a physical space, like your workspace, but also a mental space for your goals. Once you set your plan, draw a clear boundary around it. Maybe you have to pass on some party invites or your favorite TV show… prepare upfront what you have to give up, and you will have an easier time sticking to your goals.

3: Make an achievable plan.

Dreaming big is good, but achievability is more critical. Feel free to adjust your goals. There is no shame in modifying your goals as you implement them.

4: Attach every goal with a deadline.

Self-impose accountability. Without a deadline, it’s easier to find excuses for not reaching your goals.

After you try your best, you may still miss the deadline.  Don’t worry, think of how much you’ve grown through the process. The goal is to keep you a self-starter.

5: Find an accountability partner.

Two are better than one. Find a family member or friend to share your goals. And check in with each other once every month or so.

check out this post for more self-motivation tips. https://yingmclane.com/have-you-written-a-note-to-yourself/

I hope 2023 will bring you many blessings and happiness!!

Ying

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If you haven’t yet, try it. November is a good month to start planning your goals and dreams for next year.

Write down what’s truly important to you in your life. Write down what you have accomplished this year and where you feel God is leading you in the new year. And write down the encouraging words you want to hear from someone else. 

Here is my note to myself for 2023:

Ying, you have been obedient to the will of God most of the time in 2022. Great job! I hope you will keep up the good work. Always put God and the best interest of your family first. Remember, walking with Jesus is a day-to-day task. Raising children with good character takes a day-to-day effort. Making spiritual progress requires day-to-day intention. 

It may be hard to see any accomplishment in a short period, but you will see how much you have grown in 6 months. So keep moving the needle. Don’t compare your race with someone else’s race. Because you don’t know where they started. Do everything with integrity and diligence. Keep your heart open for new opportunities, new friendships, and, most importantly, the voice of your Father. 

2023 will be the year you are continually making real progress.

Remember, “Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.” 

― Roy T. Bennett, The Light in the Heart

I would love to hear about your writing a note to yourself! You can do so by replying to this email or making a comment on my blog post.

check out this post for more encouragement: https://yingmclane.com/five-tips-for-setting-your-creative-goals-for-2023/

Cheering you on, friend!

Ying

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